I’m married to an amazing woman. I couldn’t be happier in love. But it wasn’t always like this…
There was a time when I was not doing so great in the game of love. No matter how badly I wanted a relationship, I could not attract one into my life. I went through a period of about four years of being miserably single.
By the way, I was one of those “angry” single people who make fun of the happy couples in their lives. I pretended that I PREFERRED to be a free (and single) man.
Deep inside, though, I wanted a relationship like I wanted to breathe.
So I ended up investing in myself and signed up for a personal development seminar. During this week-long seminar, they did an experiment. They had all the men sit in chairs on one side of the room, and all the women on the other side of the room were given a clipboard and a pen.
The assignment was for the women to consider each man and cast their vote: If this was the last group of men to choose from, and you could only have one man on a desert island with you, or be alone, would you choose this man? Yes or no?
The only criteria they were allowed to assess was the man’s “being-ness.” Not physical attractiveness, not anything else other than how the man FELT to them.
When the seminar facilitators later tallied the votes each man got, they had us line up according to the order of number of “yes” votes. One by one, the men in the group lined up according to how many women said “yes” about them.
When all the men finished lining up, I was next to last.
Out of all the 50 or so men in that seminar, I was almost the LAST man the women would want to be alone on an island with. They would rather be alone than be around me.
Needless to say, I was very embarrassed. And surprised!
I ended up learning a valuable lesson about myself that day, and why I wasn’t connecting with women.
This lesson ended up being Law #6 in my Cracking the Man Code course. And, it so happens to be related to the #1 quality that men and women look for in a partner.
That day, and this lesson, was a turning point for me.
It made me so curious about why certain people have such an easy time finding true love, while some people keep struggling for years to find The One. It was part of the reason I decided to hit the road with my best friend and interview couples all over America to learn what makes for a great marriage and relationship.
And those interviews became my best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.
Since then, I met my wife, and dedicated my career to helping women connect with the men of their dreams.
When you sign up to get my Cracking the Man Code course, you’ll hear the whole embarrassing story of my rejection, and what that ONE QUALITY was that I was lacking at the time, and how I turned a low moment into a lifetime of discovery about what makes for a truly connected soulmate relationship.
It’s all right here:
Cracking the Man Code
I want to save you those moments of rejection and embarrassment that I had to go through. By the time you finish watching the course, you’ll have all the tools and knowledge you need to have a more connected, loving and affectionate relationship with the right man.
And you won’t be standing last in line for a lifetime of love and happiness.